Would you like to hear some advice from the sexiest person on the planet?
Then you've come to the wrong place! LOL!
I just had to get your attention there.
Here's the humorous part of all of this whole post... If you REALLY know me, you know that I am FAR FROM SEXY! LOL!
I am the biggest goof-ball, I have 27 different laughs (might have just discovered the 28th one a few weeks ago), I hate shaving so I'm normally hairy, I try not to burp out loud in public but it does still happen, I find things funny that most people don't, I tell lots of dad jokes, and my toots are literally the worst thing in the entire world. No really though. Ask anyone in my family!
So why am I doing a post about being sexy?
Well, I can tell you that I literally do feel like the sexiest person in the world. I didn't used to feel this way, and most of it has nothing to do with my looks.
The Merriam-Webster definition of sexy is "generally attractive or interesting".
Notice that this definition does not say "eyebrows on fleek" (whatever the AF that means)!
Have you ever wondered why your man looks at you with that look when you washed your makeup off, have a pony tail on top of your head and are wearing his t-shirt and sweatpants?
Sexy has so much less to do with what we look like and EVERYTHING to do with how you carry yourself! On top of that, you might be irresistible to one man and completely appalling to another! Does this mean you aren't sexy? Hells no! It means that you will be attracting the kind of man that YOU want and desire just by being YOU!
Many of you are aware that I have a great man in my life. And my man didn't "teach" me how to be sexy, and he didn't make me want to dress differently or fix my makeup more... I was sexy before he came along.
What he did do was affirm my notion that being sexy was more about being unapologetically and authentically BRANDI!
I LOVE to dress up and wear heels and put on makeup! I do it because it's fun! I walk with my shoulders back and a little swagger in my step when I'm in my stilettos. If I was hunched over and taking weird awkward steps that would NOT be very sexy! On the other hand, I don't feel like I have to wear that outfit to be sexy. I feel just as sexy in shorts and a t-shirt with flip flops on.
To me, sexy is my posture, my swagger, my smile, the look in my eyes that says I deeply care about him, the way I mother my kids, the way I treat my friends, the passion I have for my purpose, my work ethic, my honesty and loyalty, my faith, and my "smirk" as he calls it.
I'm the sexiest person in the world to ME! And THAT, my friends, is what attracted my man when I (and he) wasn't even looking for a relationship!
He is literally the best man I've ever had the pleasure of spending time with. I truly believe that it was because of my love of SELF that I was attractive to him. And his love of HIMSELF is what attracted me to HIM!
So here we are, two self-loving, confident and sexy-as-hell little ornery shits that get to do life together! And you are too. You are SO friggin' sexy, Mama! And if the people around you don't think so, then there's one of two things happening, you need to BELIEVE it for them to see it, or you are around the WRONG people!
If you want me to help you bring your sexy back, message me! Let's do this!